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A lot of people seem to be going through rough times this start of the new year, in different ways. It sucks so much because I really want every single one of you to be happy, to not have to worry so much over different things, to not have to feel lost and confused, to not have to struggle with being down all the time. I wish so much I could just fix everything for you, make you all as happy as I am with my own life right now because it's amazing, but of course I can't magically make it so.
And the worst part is that I'm not even capable of helping all of you in a way I'd like to be able to. I can't be there for you in the way I would like; when I don't know what to say whenever you talk to me personally about things or do it on Plurk or wherever, I can't settle for skipping the words and going for a hug instead because we're in different parts of the world.
I like to think that I'm at least helping as much as possible by being there as much as I can, and letting you talk to me, and reading your concerns or at rare times listen to it on Skype and maybe offer at least some words of advice, and I have been told that it's appreciated. It can never be the same as having someone there to physically pull you up in the mornings and help you face the day while really staying at your side, however, and when I go through tough times I know I have that in my family, but not everyone even has that.
A lot of the time the only thing I can think of to say is that it'll be okay, and as true as that can be (and the very most of the time is) I remember myself that I've never really liked hearing that when down. Of course, this is probably an individual thing, but that is the reason I always try to think of something else to say. Sometimes this leaves me not saying anything, or just responding with some smiley, or giving a hug in text that I'm not even sure really means anything.
But I always try my best, and you're all very important to me and I hope all of you know that I'm here whenever you need me, definitely, to do whatever I can possibly think of. And if there is ever anything I can do, like talk to you in the wee hours of the morning or write you something or play something stupid, just tell me. Since I can't hug you or really be there, I'd like to do whatever I can.
I love you, and you're amazing people, and you're never a burden on me and you never have to apologise for dumping anything on me. I can carry this "burden" just fine, and I'm happy if I can help even a little.
So just keep going and being gorgeous people, okay? And life will take you wherever, but most likely it'll be something good, no matter how long it takes.
♥
I should upload icons...
And the worst part is that I'm not even capable of helping all of you in a way I'd like to be able to. I can't be there for you in the way I would like; when I don't know what to say whenever you talk to me personally about things or do it on Plurk or wherever, I can't settle for skipping the words and going for a hug instead because we're in different parts of the world.
I like to think that I'm at least helping as much as possible by being there as much as I can, and letting you talk to me, and reading your concerns or at rare times listen to it on Skype and maybe offer at least some words of advice, and I have been told that it's appreciated. It can never be the same as having someone there to physically pull you up in the mornings and help you face the day while really staying at your side, however, and when I go through tough times I know I have that in my family, but not everyone even has that.
A lot of the time the only thing I can think of to say is that it'll be okay, and as true as that can be (and the very most of the time is) I remember myself that I've never really liked hearing that when down. Of course, this is probably an individual thing, but that is the reason I always try to think of something else to say. Sometimes this leaves me not saying anything, or just responding with some smiley, or giving a hug in text that I'm not even sure really means anything.
But I always try my best, and you're all very important to me and I hope all of you know that I'm here whenever you need me, definitely, to do whatever I can possibly think of. And if there is ever anything I can do, like talk to you in the wee hours of the morning or write you something or play something stupid, just tell me. Since I can't hug you or really be there, I'd like to do whatever I can.
I love you, and you're amazing people, and you're never a burden on me and you never have to apologise for dumping anything on me. I can carry this "burden" just fine, and I'm happy if I can help even a little.
So just keep going and being gorgeous people, okay? And life will take you wherever, but most likely it'll be something good, no matter how long it takes.
♥
I should upload icons...
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damn, ilu is taken.But no seriously you don't have to worry about only giving hugs or emoticons or stuff like that, because everyone has their own way of comforting their friends. Actually it kind of annoys me at first because I was hoping for...idk, encouraging words? Wise words? But then I realise that it's probably not your style. I did that often, too, anyway, since yes, sometimes we just don't know what to say, but we still wanted to be there for them.
NOW I'M RAMBLING but...yeah. DON'T STOP BELIEVIN', HOLD ON TO THE FEELIN', etc etc. You're a good friend. I'd never trade you for the world.
And you can always talk to me too, if you ever need someone to talk to. I may not always be online since I'm busy running around 99% percent of the time thanks to college, but at the very least, I'll listen.
Thanks for everything. ♥
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And thank you for everything too, this comment made me really happy. u/////u I always get happy knowing I've done something, at least.
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pardon the journal
and I'm in desperate need for attention because I'm actually an attention whore. It makes a difference, even if you think it's not.And that is your style! I know quite a few people who's like you. And they've influenced me quite a lot these days, and as a result I'm becoming more huggy as well, lmao. I think it needs to be said that sometimes people need those more than words? Because words are cold things for cold people like me or something like that.
That's what I aimed for I'm glad that my comment makes you happy 8) and yeah, same here! Because every big thing started from small things, right? Also you don't need to thank me, that's what friends are for!
♥!!!
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that's okay so am IHaha, words can mean a lot, but I agree, actions can definitely mean even more. I think they can both be important, though. Words have amazing power.
Indeed~
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In that case.../brofist???Words have amazing power, as long as it is backed by suitable action. ALTHOUGH HUGGING IS AWKWARD what am hugging and comforting touches. ಠ_ಠ
I'm the classic example of "all words and no action" in this context, shhh<33
/brofist!Pffft haha, sure. xD /pets
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